The Last Frontier: How to Lose the Last 10 Pounds
Posted in Balanced Body | May 26, 2010 | 15 Comments
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Does this situation sound familiar to you?
It might sound surprising, but sometimes losing 5-10 pounds is the most difficult weight loss goal. I’ve been struggling with my last few pounds for a while but now I am finally happy with where I am (or what I weigh). The approach to losing 30+ pounds and just 10 pounds is completely different so you should not feel bad if your attempts to scale down do not work. There are a number of reasons why it is so difficult to get rid of that “last frontier” of extra weight on your body:
- Weight loss plateau. If you’ve already lost a lot of weight then you have reached a plateau. Your metabolism is slower than it used to be (for every pound you lose your metabolism slows down by 20 cal a day) and your body is used to your current exercise routine and diet.
- Not enough emotional support. People who have to lose 30+ pounds usually have a lot of emotional support from friends, relatives and medical personnel. If a person is overweight then losing weight is the essential strategy that will help them resolve a lot of health problems.
- “Anti-support.” When you want to lose pounds just to reach your ideal weight then you might hear these types of comments from people around you “Why do you need to lose weight? You already look great,” “We love you the way you are,” “You will look too skinny,” “Stop torturing yourself and enjoy life (with no exercise and a lot of deserts!)”
- Procrastination. You think that you can lose those last pounds any time you really get to them that is why you indulge in special treats, skip workouts and eat out way too often. Your mind (read: laziness) tells you that losing those pounds is not critical for your well-being and that is why you always come up with a reason why now is not the best time to do it.
You will need a little bit more mental tweaking to lose weight if reasons 2-4 sound familiar to you and you will need a few lifestyle changes to get around reason 1.
I want to show you a few tricks that worked for me and I hope that they will work for you too.
Plan of Action
- Now IS the time. Make a firm decision that you are going to lose the last pounds right now. Set, ready, go!
- Eat more. I am not trying to sabotage all your efforts but if you feel that you are not eating anything and you still cannot lose any weight then eating more can actually help you. If you eat around 1200 calories a day and you are fairly active then your body does not get enough calories (1200 calorie diet if for people with a sedentary lifestyle). Your body is in shock and it starts saving fat and using muscles to get extra energy. You lose muscle mass => your metabolism slows down => you store more fat => you don’t lose weight and feel constantly hungry.
The most important step is to know what to eat. If you start filling up on ice-cream and chips then you can forget about weight loss. The trick is to eat:- foods rich in water (vegetables and fruit),
- eat a lot of lean protein (legumes, tofu, fish and seafood and lean poultry) and
- healthy fats (try walnut oil for sautéing vegetables, grape seed oil for high-temp cooking and olive oil in salads, rice and pasta.)
- Eliminate as much sugar as possible from your diet (say no to diet sodas, evening cocktails, and deserts) and
- get your carbs from whole grain products rich in fiber.
(If you want a more detailed plan, please let me know in the comments below and I’ll be glad to provide you with a sample menu.)
- Go fishing. If you are not a very good fisherman (like me and my husband are) then you can go fishing to the nearest grocery store and stock up on seafood.
Let me tell you a short story. About a month ago my husband decided to use my scales and weigh himself. Immediately after that he came up to me and started complaining that I am not feeding him enough because he lost 10 pounds (he was not planning on losing weight at all!) The only reason why he lost weight was because we had changed our diet recently and started eating seafood instead of meat. Half of our meals are vegetarian and the other half are seafood dishes. We still eat regular lean meat maybe once a week or less.
Good ways to add seafood to your diet is to have salmon, tuna or smoked salmon sandwich for lunch and of course grilled or baked fish for supper. - Start interval training. Interval training burns more calories than any flat rate physical activity. Interval training is really simple: you add a short burst of high intensity activity (run as fast as you can, cycle as fast at the peak of your performance, jump etc.) and follow it with a longer period of moderate or low-intensity activity. The best starting ratio is 1:3 meaning that you run as fast as possible for 1 minute and then you run at a slower rate for 3 minutes (you can change time to suit your current fitness level).
- Follow a Zen-Body principle. The Zen Body I am talking about is not the one that is connected to Buddhism, meditation or any spiritual or religious practice. Zen Body (and this is my personal definition and term) is a body of a person who is mindful of what they eat and how they treat their body. It is a body of a person who is using a simple balance formula: cardio, strength, stretching and real food.
Be mindful daily about how your body feels and what it needs. Pay attention to how you feel after eating different foods and satisfy your body’s need for exercise. Create a workout routine that you love and follow it feeling how your body gets stronger, leaner and more flexible day after day. - Stay active all day long. Being active throughout the day is more beneficial to you then just going to the gym 2 or 3 times a week. It won’t only burn more calories but it will make you busy so that you don’t have time to snack or overeat. If you buy a pedometer and use it to set daily goals (your goal is around 10,000 steps but you can start with just 2000 to get yourself going) then you will be more likely to stay active throughout the day. (This is considered to be one of the best reasonably priced pedometers Omron HJ-720ITC Pocket Pedometer with Advanced Omron Health Management Software (aff)). You can find fun ways to stay active all day with these non-boring fitness ideas.
- Keep a food diary. Food diaries might smell like last century but they are still some of the most effective ways to lose weight. Losing weight is nothing but a mathematical equation and if you can figure out when and why you are eating more calories than you should (or too few calories) then you will be able to make the right changes to your diet. Keep your food diary fun with a FitBook journal (aff) that will let you track your physical activity and your calories as well as set up goals and follow a well-structured weight-loss plan.
- Take a weight loss vacation. Sometimes you just have to get away from your regular routines to get the ball rolling. A lot of spas offer expensive weight loss retreats but you don’t have to go anywhere (or pay a lot of money) to experience the same benefits.
- Make a healthy living plan for a week and try to hold on to it no matter what. Find the healthiest low-cal recipes (EatingWell magazine or Mayoclinic can be a good source of tasty recipes) and fix them this week.
- Go extreme and eliminate any processed or sugary treats (except for fruit and natural sweeteners like honey).
- Change your workout routine and try something new every day of the week. My personal winning combination is running (cardio) + Pilates (strength) + Yoga (stretching and strength). This formula works for me like a charm.
- Don’t forget to indulge in some pampering spa-like activities like a hot bath, massage, manicure and pedicure and relaxing walks outside. This weight loss vacation should feel like a retreat and not like torture.
- Stop watching TV. What does TV have to do with weight loss? When you zone out on the coach you are more likely to snack, your brain literally turns off and you lose motivation for any activities as well as you lose track of how much time you’ve spent without any movement. Without TV you will have more time to stay active during the day and you will have more time for yourself or your loved ones.
I am sure that if you follow these tips then you will be able to get that scale moving in the right direction. If you have any detailed questions about losing weight (like sample workout routines, recipes etc.) please ask me in the comments below. I will be delighted to answer all of those questions. I would also love to hear your ways of fighting weight.
Balanced living is not possible without a balanced and healthy body. Start your trip to the body of your dreams right now!
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Hello,
Love this! Am always wanting to lose those last few pounds, but then I get complacent. Thanks for the info on the pedometer. I am beginning my training for a marathon and have been looking for one that is multi-functional and I love that this one will store a week’s work of data. Thank you so much! Truly, am very happy to have found your site. This summer, I will move into my best body!
Actually this post was inspired by your comment. I thought that a lot of people are struggling with these few pounds that just don’t want to leave no matter what. I hope that you will be able to get into your dream body really soon!
I would love a sample meal plan …..how much do you typically exercise daily?
Hi Charity,
here are a few of my daily routines that help me stay fit. If you need more details please send me an email through the contact form and I’ll be glad to discuss a meal plan and an exercise routine more thoroughly.
Exercise:
Running – 30 min- 2-3 times a week
Pilates and Yoga- 1hr – 2-3 times a week
Walking – a lot (I take my girls for a stroll every other day and my husband and I love to walk in the parks when we have free time.)
Meal plan:
Breakfast:
about 1 cup of home-made muesli with skim milk and a handful of fresh fruit (similar to this recipe but without brown sugar Cranberry-Almond Granola)
or 2 scrambled eggs, fresh fruit
Drink: Black coffee
Lunch:
1 Whole-wheat sandwich with a drop of mayo (I love Nature’s Own thin buns! they don’t have any preservatives and they are a great source of fiber ), smoked salmon and fresh spinach (any lettuce will do). (Instead of smoked salmon you can use tuna or canned salmon). Instant miso soup (it’s low-cal and it is a great source of protein and nutrients) if available.
Drink: water
Supper:
Pasta with marinara sauce and a little bit of parmezan
Or
Grilled tuna (any other fish will do) with 1 cup of rice (I love Rica-A-Roni whole wheat blend or regular Jasmin rice) and asparagus or broccoli (baked or steamed)
Drink: water, sometimes 1 Glass of red wine
Snacks:
fruit and dried fruit when I am craving something sweet,
green tea (no sugar) and 2 Oreos
a few squares of dark chocolate
The menu can vary a lot because I like to cook and try new things. You can see the main tendency is that I hardly ever drink any sweet drinks (including juice), add fruit or vegetables to every meal and in between if possible, and consume only healthy oils (there are no trans fats in my diet but I do like cheese and cream cheese a few times a week.)
I hope this meal plan will be helpful to you. Again, don’t hesitate to contact me me by email and I’ll be glad to discuss all these things in more detail with you.
Anastayisa -
Some really great advice here. I reckon you are onto something with the fish point. I have really cut down on meat and most of my meals are veggie or fish based now and that seems to really help with managing weight. I also exercise regularly and find that when I do intervals the pounds just drop off. The only point I’d add is if you are going to drink avoid beer – it really seems to make me swell! Really strong post – thank you.
Phil
Phil. thanks for sharing your experience. I agree that beer can add extra pounds in no time (especially that beer belly
) I love dry red wine (it has a lot of health benefits for the heart and it is low in calories as compared to other alcoholic drinks). Thanks again for your comment!
Hi Anastaysia,
The first thing people want to do is…not watch TV…nailed correctly. Many people are unable to lose those extra pounds for this 1 big reason.
Avoid emotional support…. that does not help at all…
Above all walk as much as you can… don’t drive for a few blocks…get on your feet and see the difference.
Stay Healthy,
Cheryl
Good Article Anastasiya , you should also write a post about getting six packs, that;s giving lots of people a hard time
Farook, thanks for a great article suggestion! I definitely know a lot about getting those 6 packs
Weight loss plateau. That is surely what I have reached. Though I guess at some point I lost motivation too. But I liked the plan of action that you suggested, will try to follow it and see what will come out of this.
Ahhhh, I so needed to read this post, thanks! Lost 90 pds, now just need to lose those last 10.
WOW, congratulations on losing 90 lbs! I would love to see your success story on the pages of my blog because I am sure you have a lot of secrets to share.
Good luck with those last 10 lbs!
Anastasiya, I’d love more detail on the hows of eating and excersise. At 41 I’m starting out on my own again and it’s time to make some healthy changes.
Hi Mark!
It is wonderful that you have decided to lead a healthier lifestyle now. The first thing that I would suggest is to set up your goals. What do you need to do to get healthier? Lose weight? Balance your diet? Get more exercise? anything else. Don’t try to do everything at the same time. Set just one goal at a time and start working towards it.
You can check some of the articles that I have already written about healthy lifestyle. Here they are:
101 Healthy Habits that Anyone Can Follow
How to Develop Healthy Habits That Stick
You are what you eat: the first two steps to get on the balanced nutrition train to success
77 (+7) Ways to Keep Your Heart Healthy and Happy for 100 Years or Longer
How to Start Running in 7 Easy Steps
Thanks for an interesting article. After looking through different websites I finally found something worth reading.